不當的行為是可寬恕的,但也不應一味姑息
"Bad behavior can be forgiven, but the behavior must change."
親愛的朋友:
俗云:「 和諧的秩序乃是天堂的首要法則」,你無須容忍人際關係中的曖昧與不實。如果每個人只想「活出自己」,只會導致混亂與無情。當人際關係缺乏了諒解與共識時,便失去它存在的意義了。
獨立,並不是人類進化的新里程碑,它缺少了彼此擔當的願心,因此切勿任它無聲無息地侵蝕你們的關係,也不要去打擊那些拒受它擺佈的有志之士。
不當的行為是可寬恕的,但也不應一味姑息。不當的行為,不只損傷了維繫人類文明以及社會和諧的基本架構,還會傷害正在逐漸改善的人際關係。
Dear friends,
It has been said that, "Order is heaven's first law." You should have no patience with vague or nonexistent structures in relationships. Everyone "just being themselves" is chaotic, insensitive, and lacks the elements of cooperation and mutual understanding which are essential to the very meaning of the word "relationships."
Independence - the absence of willing obligation, one to another - does not constitute the new wave of progress in evolution. So, don't let it creep into your relationships unchallenged, or judge those who have enough courage to refuse to be abused by it.
"Bad behavior can be forgiven, but the behavior must change, else bad behavior becomes acceptable, undermining all that forms the foundation for civilization and social harmony, not to mention improved interpersonal relationships."
Rajpur
Kingston, WashingtonJanuary 10, 2002
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