摘要: 溝通不會自行發生的。它需要說者與聽者同時臨在當下…
作者：Paul Ferrini
溝通是一神聖的行為
聆聽是需要精力專注的，你需具備對他人的接收能力。
當我們不在接收狀態時，我們不該故作聆聽狀。
我們需要讓對方知道，自己當前不在接收狀態中；
反之，當別人無法聆聽時，我們也不該試圖與他/她分享任何事情。
溝通不會自行發生的。它需要說者與聽者同時臨在當下。
當雙方都能全然臨在時，溝通成了神聖的行為
Communication is a Sacred Act
Listening takes energy and attention. It takes receptivity to the other person. When we aren’t receptive, we should not try to listen. We should let the other person know that we are not in a receptive state. Conversely, when the other person cannot offer this attention to us, we shouldn’t try to share with him or her.
Communication does not happen by itself. It requires both the speaker and the listener to be present. When both are present fully, it is a sacred act.
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